Wednesday, August 12, 2015

Signing Off!

Guys, our wedding week has finally arrived!! People keep asking me how I'm feeling, and it's such a hard question for me to answer. I think that mostly I'm just in a state of disbelief. Disbelief that I am marrying such an amazing guy. Disbelief that it honestly feels like just yesterday that josh proposed and now here we are a year later, about the tie the knot. Disbelief that all of our wedding day details are actually all coming together in the way I'd always envisioned. I wish I could say I'm as cool as a cucumber, but I think that anyone who has gone through this process would agree that its impossible not to be emotional. But I can say that I have made it over the worried/nervous hump and am now just feeling super excited.

This past year has been so incredibly wonderful in so many ways, and I can't thank everyone who reads this little blog enough for all of your support, kind comments, and well wishes for josh and I over the past year. I've shared so much of our wedding planning process here, and I'm thankful that I'll have those posts forever to look back on and remember this time in our lives. If you are just getting here, you can take a little trip down #joshandlusayido memory lane below. I read each and every one of these posts again as I was writing this and wow, this past year has been pretty fun.
And now I am signing off for a few weeks to marry the guy that has my whole heart. Even though most of what I've written about here is about pretty tablescapes, invitations, dresses and suits, the part I'm truly looking forward to most on our wedding day is simply walking down the aisle to him. A HUGE thanks goes out to 42 NorthMstarr Design, and to my parents, who have truly been the brains behind this operation and who I know will make it a weekend that josh and I will never forget. If you want to keep up with us over the next few days, you can follow our hashtag #joshandlusayido. Next time I'm back here, I'll officially be a Mrs. Let'd do this!!

Friday, August 7, 2015

This week on Marlborough 8.7

Happy Friday all! We've been down in Westport the last few weekends, where we've spent a lot of time organizing, assembling, and prepping for the wedding, as well as our fair share of time out on the boat enjoying the sun (ok, maybe a little more boat time than prep time). Josh has very willingly taken on the role of family boat captain, and we've loved exploring the harbor and spending nearly all day in the ocean, which is so warm down there at this time of year. I am SO excited for the week ahead, but I find myself feeling a tiny bit sad that when we return from our honeymoon it will be nearly September, so this will really be our last lazy New England weekend of the summer! August is my absolute favorite, so I'm trying to soak it all in right now, because I know it will be gone in the blink of an eye. And I have to admit, I might miss all of the crazy wedding planning too!

So I will likely check in next week before officially signing off from the blog to tie the knot, but this will be my last Friday post for a while guys!! At this time next week I'll be a day away from marrying my best friend. That is if my heart doesn't actually, physically explode before then...
Here are some fun links to hold you over until I'm back!

  • This video of ducklings crossing a freeway restores my faith in humanity. 
  • The worst things about being an adult
  • Instagram bans yet another hashtag, and people are pissed. 
  • Babies eating ice cream, so cute!
  • Would you ever bring a photographer on vacation? Interesting concept!
  • Pinterest FAILS.
  • When a woman with amnesia couldn't remember her wedding, her husband did something amazing.
  • Has anyone else seen the "Fed Up" documentary on Netflix? Josh and I just watched it and found it pretty eye-opening. 
  • I don't care if they are messy, these look delicious. 
  • If I could dream up a workspace, it would look a little something like this
  • A husband surprises his wife with her own pregnancy news! 


Have a great weekend!

Tuesday, July 28, 2015

My (Pre-Wedding) Fitness Journey

So when I started this blog (2 years ago this month!), I NEVER thought I would be writing about fitness. I am by absolutely no means an expert when it comes nutrition or working out, but I have tried to adopt a more healthy lifestyle these last few months leading up to the wedding, so I thought I would share my experiences in hopes that it's even a little bit helpful for other brides getting ready for the big day, or even those who have just struggled getting into a solid, healthy daily routine. So here goes!

Where I was: I have never been someone that lived at the gym, ate particularly healthily, or really even had any sort of food guilt. I ate whatever I wanted, whenever I wanted, and was lucky in the fact that frankly I wasn't a lot bigger than I was! But after testing for fairly high-cholesterol (thanks, cheese) and feeling really out of shape after a (very) long winter hibernating indoors, I knew it was time to make a change, and what better excuse to make it than arguably the biggest and most photographed day of my life. But I also knew that I wasn't willing to starve myself, drink only juices for weeks, or spend hours at the gym everyday to do it. I needed something that was sensitive to my busy schedule and also didn't leave me starving at the end of the day.

My goals: When I decided to get going in late May/early June, I wasn't overweight by any means. I was about 123-125 pounds depending on the day, and wanted to lose a little bit of weight, but mainly really tighten and tone every part of my body.

The 5 things that got me there:
1. Eat Healthy: At the end of the day, losing weight is really all about what you put in your mouth. Luckily at the beginning of this process, my bridesmaid Erin (who is a clinical dietitian), gave me a pretty comprehensive run-down of what I should be eating to reach my goals. This meant a certain number of calories per day, which I downloaded the MyFitnessPal app to track. Every time I eat something during the day, I log it into MyFitnessPal, and it tells me exactly how many calories are in it, so at the end of the day I end up with a nice daily log of my total, which I try to keep as close to my goal number of calories as possible. And while at first this was excruciatingly hard to stick to (just ask josh what kind of mood I was in for that first week), it was really just because of what I was eating. You learn quickly that if you want to have a side of fries and a couple bloodys at brunch that's completely fine, but then you are already at half of your calorie intake for the day so you wind up being pretty hungry later when you are only allowed a small second meal. Or if you want to add cheese, croutons and a few tablespoons of olive oil to your salad that's fine too (and I always did), but then that healthy salad just turned into a very unhealthy salad. So I learned fast that you can eat much more if the food you are eating is healthy. And this may be super obvious to most people, but having never really looked at labels or cared about it before, this part was a total game changer for me! Adding foods to my app and seeing how many calories are really in that cup of pasta sauce or scoop of ice cream were really eye-opening. One of the best things I did was sign up for Boston Organics bi-weekly veggie delivery, which makes it so easy to eat healthy. We still do shop for the basics like milk, cheese, and meats, beans etc. but other than that we pretty much live off our weekly goodies from that box. That includes making most of my own lunches (which makes it so much easier to calorie count), and when I don't make lunch, buying it from a chain like Pret a Manger, Au Bon Pain, B. Good, or Hale & Hearty where they include the calories right on the shelves or the menu.
2. Ditch the Gym: Now I know a lot of people love the gym so this may not apply to everyone, but every single workout I did in the last few months, I did right in my living room. I absolutely dreaded going to the gym (which led to me rarely going), and working out at home saved me so much time, money, and all of that comparison to others around me. Once I had my diet under control (thanks Erin!!), I turned to my other fitness-coach-friend Brynn for the workout piece. She pointed me to BeachBody's "21 Day Fix" program, and I am totally obsessed with the workout videos. They all can be done with very little equipment (just a couple sets of weights and a mat), very little space, (I do them in the little area right in front of our TV), and very little time (30 minutes a day). I've tried several workout videos in the past, but I think the fact that these videos really mix up the workouts and are only 30 minutes is what really helped me stick to them this time. Taking 1-2 hours out of your day to work out can be tough but generally, you always have just 30 minutes to spare! Since they are DVDs, it's also been easy to travel with them and squeeze one in no matter how busy our summer weekend schedule has gotten. I've popped in a DVD in my parents' basement, in hotel rooms when traveling for work, and multiple times up in Vermont when I ran in from the beach during lunchtime to squeeze a workout in (while still in my bikini!) before heading right back out into the water.
3. Work out in the morning: This was another HUGE realization for me. I am not a morning person, so working out in the morning was and never has been an option for me. But at the same time, when I planned workouts at night, they would often go right out the window after I got home from a long day at work or plans with friends popped up instead. So I decided that if I was going to integrate a workout regimen into my daily routine, it had to be in the morning. During that first week, I dragged myself out of bed and forced myself to do the videos before work, but after that first week it got easier. Since they are short, it only requires waking up about 30 minutes earlier, I feel so much more awake and energized throughout the day, I can meet up with friends and have a social life after work without worrying about squeezing in a workout first, AND I've found I actually like how my hair looks much more when I shower in the morning vs. before when I showered at night. :) Winning all around!
4. Find a support group: Eating healthy and working out is always easier when you aren't doing it alone. That's another thing that I've loved about the "21 Day Fix," in that we are all in a Facebook group together encouraging each other, getting healthy recipes workout tips from Brynn, and ultimately being held accountable for sticking to the plan every day. Since I'm doing everything at home, I also love that joining this program doesn't mean sacrificing time spent with josh, who is always there cheering me on, laughing at me, snapchatting videos of me :/. or sometimes even joining in! When you are in a relationship, working out can often be such a solo sport, but I love that whether it's through finding new healthy recipes, cooking, or jumping around in our living room, I've been able to involve him ever step of the way.
5. Develop food guilt: I think it's healthy to feel a little bit guilty after eating an entire bag of chips or quart of ice cream, and maybe most people do feel this, but it's never something I felt before. As I said, I literally ate whatever I wanted and would walk away maybe feeling full, but didn't care the slightest bit about the "health" factor of the meal. I thought it was so annoying when people brought up how they wished they could order something off a menu but they couldn't because it was "unhealthy" and I just wanted to scream "live a little!!" But the truth is, having a little bit of food guilt is what makes you conscious of what you put in your body, and is what makes you not choose the unhealthy option every time. I by no means stuck to my goal calorie intake everyday, there were SO many days over the last couple of months that I skipped my workout, went way over those calories, or ate an entire pizza at 2am. But food guilt is what made me not do the same thing the very next day, or maybe eat really healthy for the next few days after that to make up for it. The guilt is the highest at restaurants since there is really no way to accurately track the calories you are eating, so restaurant dining is definitely not your friend when dieting, unless you grab something at a well-established chain restaurant like Chipotle, Shake Shack, Not Your Average Joes, Bertuccis, or even Joe's American Bar & Grill, whose menu item calories ARE all already logged in the MyFitnessPal app. All those other fun Boston restaurants and bars are, however, a huge part of my social life, so I didn't avoid them altogether, just less often! I am just so much more aware of what I eat now, and "eating" is something I thought I would hate thinking about, but I'm actually so thankful that I'm at least a tiny bit more nutritionally educated now than I was when I started.
^ how I look most mornings after my video ;)

I am happy to report that after making these five small changes, I'm down to 114 pounds after 2 months, which is about 10 pounds lighter and I'm 100x stronger. He would argue with this, but I think I can plank for longer than josh now! But other than the obvious changes in my body, it's how I feel that I'm the most excited about. I feel lighter, happier, and have more energy than I ever have. And surprisingly (mostly to myself), it really hasn't been that hard. Originally I thought I'd have to shift my whole life around to get in shape, and that mindset is what was holding me back. But I've found that it's not a drastic lifestyle change at all, it's simply small changes that you need to make an effort to stick to.
And what's even better, is that even post wedding, I've found a routine that I'm confident I can keep up with, maybe not as religiously, but at least enough to stay in shape. I know that I will be doing plenty of walking, stair climbing, and swimming to stay active while we are on our honeymoon in Greece, but I find myself thinking that I actually might miss my morning workout videos a little! I feel certain that our hotel rooms on the caldera will not have DVD players, but I might bring my videos along on the off chance they do. ;)

And again, these are just my opinions and experiences, and by no means are they right for everyone. I just wanted to share because hey, if it works for me, one of the biggest junk food addicts of all time, then it might work for some other people too. Thanks so much to Erin, Brynn, and to Josh, who has painstakingly listened to the same workout video music over and over again and who could now probably quote Autumn in his sleep. :)  I hope you all enjoyed reading and if you want to join in with me on one final "21 Day Fix" in these last few weeks before the wedding, or even just talk to someone about starting a workout plan, feel free to shoot me an email at lindseybach@yahoo.com and I will get you in touch with Brynn!
^ P.S. in case you were wondering, Mac is also "shedding for the wedding," and often joins right in underfoot during my workouts. :) 

Friday, July 24, 2015

This week on Marlborough 7.24

TGIF all! Josh and I spent an awesome couple of days in Vermont last weekend enjoying Lake Champlain and drinking our fair share of beers at Burlington brewfest. I'm sad that it will probably be our last trip up there before September due to the wedding and our honeymoon, but we tried to make zero plans these last few weekends leading up to the big day, and stick close to home and Westport for any last minute to-dos that may pop up. I really can't believe how close it's getting! I don't think it's really even completely hit josh and I yet. But then we got our marriage license this morning and were like OK, this is actually happening. Excuse me if I'm a ball of emotions on (and off) this blog for the next 22 days!

What is everyone up to for the weekend? We are planning on finishing the bars josh is building for the wedding (full DIY tutorial coming soon!), doing some boating, and maybe checking out the Newport Folk Festival via water. Happy Friday!
And here are some fun links from around the web this week...

  • The couple that started the infamous #followmeto hashtag takes their honeymoon, and the photos are stunning, obviously. 
  • Vote for the 2015 Remodelista design awards! 
  • A delicious looking coffee milkshake recipe
  • Loved this article about decorating with your other half. Decorating/DIYing is one of my favorite things to do with josh.
  • Some dreamy shades of pink
  • Some amazing hood ornaments I want on our car right now. 
  • Leading up to this crazy wedding weekend of ours, I think we might start reading in bed. Sounds so soothing. 
  • A Tumblr account you could get lost in for hours. You've been warned! 


Have a wonderful sun-filled weekend!

Wednesday, July 22, 2015

10 Ways to Incorporate Calligraphy into Your Wedding

If you haven't noticed already, I'm a little calligraphy obsessed! And I've intentionally kept a lot of the "design" elements of our wedding day under wraps, but you can be sure of one thing - there will be lots of calligraphy. The written word has always been fascinating to me - I love letters, quotes, typography, you name it, and when those words are written in beautiful hand-lettered script, it makes me love them even more. We worked with Lauren of A Fabulous Fete on our save the dates and invitations (I like her more modern style of calligraphy, I'd recognize it anywhere!) and we are excited to be working with her on many of other details for the big day as well. Stay tuned!

In the meantime, here is a sneak peek at our wedding invites! Lauren did such an amazing job at taking the inspiration we conveyed to her (tattered paper, blue watercolor, very ethereal etc.) and bringing it to life by hand-painting and lettering the entire suite. Once all of the pieces arrived, my amazing helpers (my mom, sister, some of my bridesmaids) and I hand-packaged each of them with a few vintage stamps and some plant dyed silk ribbon from Silk & Willow. Each individual invitation was such a labor of love and I was so glad when they were finally in the mail and on their way to all of our guests.
And here are 10 great ways to incorporate calligraphy into your own wedding! All photos can be found here.

1. Save the Dates
2. Invitations
3. Welcome Sign
4. Programs
5. Table Numbers & Escort Cards
6. Dinner Menus
7. Cake Display 
8. Bar Drink Lists
9. Take Home Gifts
10. Bride & Groom Chairs
OK so now who else is as calligraphy obsessed as I am!? I think that calligraphy brings such a fun and tad bit formal element to any occasion. And if it you're not into it - that's totally OK too. It's not everyone's cup of tea. So many people actually commented that they couldn't even read our invites! Which made me laugh, but I think it's definitely like wine, an acquired taste. 

For more lettered inspiration & ideas, click here!

Friday, July 17, 2015

This week on Marlborough 7.17

TGIF! My parents finally put their boat in the water this month, and last weekend we were able to enjoy a solid two days of nothing but sun, sand, and boat time down in Westport, MA. Westport is such a beautiful place by land but I haven't really experienced much of it by sea, so it was fun to learn the channels, discover new sand bars and beaches, and then really let the boat rip out in the deep sea. Josh loved playing boat captain and teacher to my parents (it was pretty cute to see his crazy wind-blown hair and huge smile) and Mac and I are very happy passengers, so it was pretty much the best & most relaxing weekend ever. Weekends like that one just remind me of what a special place Westport really is and how there's no other place that I'd rather get married. And I can't wait to share that with all of our closest family and friends!

 What's everyone up to for the weekend? Happy Friday!

Here are some fun links from around the web this week...
  • A kitchen remodel fit for a cookbook.
  • 6 ways to use the little walls in your home. 
  • This Volvo concept for a luxury child seat is pretty cool!
  • The ultimate third wheel
  • DYING over this colorful Cuban wedding inspiration. 
  • I am very intrigued by the tiny house movement, but this article pointing out its realities is pretty funny. 
  • Cacti are pretty cool. I love these cactus earrings, this cactus phone case, & these cactus pincushions!
  • Cat houses that are worthy of Architectural Digest. 
  • A pretty cool story about a discovered Dior model.

Have a great summer weekend!

Thursday, July 16, 2015

Spicy Cucumber Jalapeño Margarita Recipe

Anyone that has ever eaten with me knows that I have a very low tolerance for anything spicy. I never quite understood why people want their mouth to be on fire while trying to enjoy a meal, and I avoid spicy food at all costs. But for some reason, this cocktail is different. It's definitely got a big kick, but it's absolutely delicious and I am totally obsessed.

We concocted this margarita recipe when one night after work josh said "let's make margaritas," totally out of the blue. Josh is a beer guy and almost never drinks hard alcohol, so I jumped at the chance to play barista for the night. And after getting out all the necessary margarita making supplies, we decided on a cucumber/jalapeño version based on the ingredients we had in the fridge from our veggie box, and also loosely based off of a yummy cucumber margarita we love from Lolita, one of our favorite restaurants. And since that night, it has definitely become my "go to" summer drink - I couldn't wait to get home after work last Friday and just relax on our patio with one again!
Here's how to make your own...

Ingredients (1 drink)
- 4 ounces tequila (must be a silver version)
- 2 ounces of triple sec or agave syrup
- 2 ounces of lime juice
- 1 cucumber, sliced into rounds
- 1 jalapeño, sliced into rounds
- sea salt and black pepper

To start, slice 4 rounds from the cucumber (cutting those rounds into quarters - so 16 pieces) and then cut 2 rounds from the jalapeño.
Next, place the cucumber & jalapeño slices into a cocktail shaker, along with the tequila, and muddle until the cucumbers start to break up. If you don't have a muddler, get creative - we used the end of an ice cream scoop!
Next, add the lime juice, triple sec, and a few ice cubes to your cocktail shaker and shake vigorously.
After that, take one of your limes and use it to wet the rim of your glass before rimming the glass with the salt and black pepper mixture.
Add ice to your glass and then strain and pour your drink! I always add a few extra cucumber slices (or an extra jalapeño round if you are daring) as garnish before serving.
Finally, enjoy!
With a few simple ingredients, this drink is easy to whip up at home and so incredibly delicious and refreshing. One Friday night I had about 4 of them and then things ended up like this, so drink responsibility! ;) And for those of you worried about the spicy factor, take it from a fellow jalapeño hater - it's more than bearable. Cheers!